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Simone Singh has graciously shared her personal journey into motherhood as part of our Stories by Moms for Moms feature. In her story, she offers insights, experiences, and wisdom about her path as a new mom, sharing her biggest lessons learned and the most rewarding aspects of motherhood. Whether you’re an expectant mom, a new mom yourself, or just curious about the early chaos of motherhood, you will find inspiration and relatability in her words. So, let’s dive into this conversation.

1. What have been the most rewarding aspects of being a mother for you?

Experiencing the joy of being there for my baby, answering her calls, and sharing moments of love and cuddles.

2. What is the one thing you wish someone had told you about motherhood before you became a mom?

Understanding that embracing motherhood might mean undergoing a transformative journey to rediscover parts of yourself.

3. What were some of the biggest lessons you learned about yourself as a mother?

I’ve learned about my resilience and my capacity to advocate for my child while setting healthy boundaries.

4. How did you handle situations when you disagreed with your partner or family members on how to raise your children?

Before our baby arrived, my partner and I had open discussions about our parenting values, establishing both common ground and individual preferences. We committed to presenting a united front to family while prioritizing our shared views.

5. How important is self-care for you, and what are some of your favourite self-care activities that you like to do when you have some alone time? 

Prioritizing self-care is paramount. During the evening hours when my partner is away, I indulge in a warm, soothing shower followed by a brief skincare regimen, including microblading and a face mask. This time is my sanctuary.

6. In what ways has prioritising self-care helped you become a better mother to your child?

By nurturing my own identity through self-care, I’ve regained a sense of confidence that benefits both me and my child.

7. Describe yourself in 3 words before being a mom and after being a mom.

Before being a mom

Spontaneous, carefree and carefree

After being a mom

Decisive, strong, and resilient

8. What advice would you give new moms about managing the ups and downs of motherhood?

Trust your instincts, remain steadfast in your decisions, and shield yourself from external doubts. The hormonal challenges are formidable, but you’ll emerge stronger. The fourth trimester unveils a new you, but remember, you’re undertaking the remarkable role of being a dependable presence for a little life.

Acknowledgements:

A big thank you to Simone Singh for trusting us with her story. Please follow her on Instagram: https://instagram.com/simone_singh/